What are the biggest myth about sex and how to improve your love life? It is not having good sex. That is a common myth that I hear almost daily in my email box. You may be surprised at what I have to say.
Most men think they are having better sex with their wives when they actually are doing something differently than they are doing it. They believe that they are not pleasuring their partner because they are doing something different. What they are really doing is having sex in the manner that women love it. Women do not report that they are having better sexual intercourse because they are doing what men do, which means more of the same.
Another big misconception is that men who ejaculate more tend to be “better” lovers. Again this could not be further from the truth. Believe it or not the majority of men who ejaculate more tend to be “poor lovers” as well. Why would you want to be around someone who does not care about you and only has your orgasm for personal gain?
Men who ejaculate tend to ejaculate before or shortly after vaginal penetration. Why is this so important? Well, most women prefer a man who ejaculates before penetration. They prefer a man who uses his tongue or finger to stimulate her before going down on her. Men who ejaculate later in the sexual act are often those who use the toys that stimulate orgasm.
Another belief that needs to be busted is that women want sex over. This may not be true, but women do not love sex once. They are much more likely to be in a long term relationship than one where they just go through the motions of sex. They want to do things that make them feel special like cuddling, kissing, oral sex and sexual intercourse.
Not having a lot of sex can lead to a boring sex life for both men and women. When there is no sex at all sex drives are dulled and sex drive becomes non-existent. Sex is not only a part of your relationship with a woman it is also a part of your life. Having no sex is no fun.
You need to make your sex life better than it currently is if you want your marriage and sex life to be better than they ever have been. There is no way around this fact. If your wife is not having sex with you as much as she did when you first got married, it is time to do something about it. She will not come back into your arms, if she thinks that you are not paying attention to her and/or keeping your sex life active and interesting. Even if your sex life is wonderful right now it needs to be better.
So, the question is not if you should try to improve your sex life, the answer is if you don’t want your marriage to be over because you are not having any sex. I don’t know about you but if my wife isn’t going to have sex with me I don’t want her to be able to see me as being a failure as much as I see her thinking that. In other words, if you want to save your marriage then do something about it. It really is not that difficult and you might even find that you actually enjoy it.
First, you must understand that in a marriage sex plays an important role. In fact, studies show that sex can actually strengthen a marriage. This means that if your wife has better sex, then she will feel a stronger connection to you and to the marriage. That means that you will actually find that your sex life improves and your marriage does better too.
Second, there are many ways to spice up your sex life and most women don’t know about them. For example, lingerie is a very important part of the bedroom attire of most women. If you buy your wife a sexy pair of sexy lingerie (which will of course increase her arousal level as well), then this will cause her to think of you more often and to want more of the same. If you don’t buy her some good sexy lingerie, then she will not feel as stimulated by the idea of sex as she would if she was wearing a sexy lingerie item that was just right for her body type. If this doesn’t work, then try to buy her new sexy clothing as well.
Sex plays such a major role in a marriage, that you have to make it work. Remember that the key to getting your marriage to work is to be the best spouse you can be. Try to improve your relationship with your spouse and try to spend as much time with her as possible and share as much of your life with her as well. That way, you will both feel closer to each other and more fulfilled with the sex life in your marriage. This will make your marriage a better experience for both you and your wife!